"To be loved like that makes all the difference. It does not lessen the terror of the fall, but it gives a new perspective on what that terror means. I had jumped off the edge, and then, at the very last moment, something reached out and caught me in midair. That something is what I define as love. It is the one thing that can stop a man from falling, the one thing powerful enough to negate the laws of gravity." Paul Auster (Moon Palace)
Monday, May 5, 2025
Sunday, May 4, 2025
Saturday, May 3, 2025
Friday, May 2, 2025
Thursday, May 1, 2025
The sentence that best defined Pope Francis (the day before he died)
“Every time I visit a prison, I ask: why them and not me?”
A frase que melhor definiu o Papa Francisco (um dia antes de morrer)
“Cada vez que vou visitar uma prisão, pergunto: porquê eles e não eu?”
Fait-divers: Outline of an Essential Moral Theory: Altruistic Cognitive Dissonance as a Moral Precept
All people except me are not to blame for the wrong decisions they have made: they are the product of determinism; however, when they make the right decisions, they do so using their responsibility (free will). On the contrary, when I make good decisions, I am merely the product of determinism (grace?): I have no merit in them; however, when I make wrong decisions, I am solely responsible for them (free will).
Fait-divers: Esboço de uma teoria moral essencial: dissonância cognitiva altruísta enquanto preceito moral
Todas as pessoas, exceto eu, não são culpadas pelas decisões erradas que tomaram: são o produto do determinismo; no entanto, quando tomam as decisões certas, fazem-nas no uso da sua responsabilidade (livre arbítrio). Pelo contrário, eu, quando tomo decisões acertadas, sou apenas o produto do determinismo (graça?): não tenho qualquer mérito nelas; no entanto, quando tomo decisões erradas, sou o único responsável por elas (livre arbítrio).
Wednesday, April 30, 2025
Tuesday, April 29, 2025
Fait-divers on grace and soul
"The AA movement itself is not a religion. It doesn’t carry any religious affiliation, but it is a real spirituality. On the occasions that I’ve been to 12 Steps or AA meetings, I felt grace very powerfully present there in that group of addicts. All of them must at least have got to the 1st Step of the 12 Steps. They admitted their problem. They knew what their addiction was, and they confessed it. They could admit it and they could speak about it. And they knew that that addiction was stronger than they were. That split in their soul was too great for them to heal by themselves. They couldn’t get themselves back together by themselves. They were powerless – it’s the word used in the 1st Step. And that is a very spiritual moment. That’s the moment where you realize that you are not in complete control of your life, that you don’t know where you come from and you don’t know where you are going but you know that in some way your very existence, your very being is a gift. And it’s interesting that it should be when we are powerless that we are most likely to experience that and realize that. That is a moment where grace can begin to squeeze in." (Spirituality in a Secular Age, Laurence Freeman OSB)
Monday, April 28, 2025
Sunday, April 27, 2025
Fait-divers on Kierkegaard
Søren Kierkegaard: the inability to pause and pay attention as our greatest source of unhappiness.
Saturday, April 26, 2025
Friday, April 25, 2025
Fait-divers on the essential
“The walls of hospitals have heard more honest prayers than churches...
They have witnessed far more sincere kisses than those in airports...
It is in hospitals that you see a homophobe being saved by a gay doctor.
A privileged doctor saving the life of a beggar...
In intensive care, you see a Jew taking care of a racist...
A police officer and a prisoner in the same room receiving the same care...
A wealthy patient waiting for a liver transplant, ready to receive the organ from a poor donor...
It is in these moments, when the hospital touches the wounds of people, that different worlds intersect according to a divine design. And in this communion of destinies, we realize that alone, we are nothing.
The absolute truth of people, most of the time, only reveals itself in moments of pain or in the real threat of an irreversible loss.
A hospital is a place where human beings remove their masks and show themselves as they truly are, in their purest essence.
This life will pass quickly, so do not waste it fighting with people.
Do not criticize your body too much.
Do not complain excessively.
Do not lose sleep over bills.
Make sure to hug your loved ones.
Do not worry too much about keeping the house spotless.
Material goods must be earned by each person—do not dedicate yourself to accumulating an inheritance.
You are waiting for too much: Christmas, Friday, next year, when you have money, when love arrives, when everything is perfect...
Listen, perfection does not exist.
A human being cannot attain it because we are simply not made to be fulfilled here.
Here, we are given an opportunity to learn.
So, make the most of this trial of life—and do it now.
Respect yourself, respect others. Walk your own path, and let go of the path others have chosen for you.
Respect: do not comment, do not judge, do not interfere.
Love more, forgive more, embrace more, live more intensely!
And leave the rest in the hands of the Creator.”
They have witnessed far more sincere kisses than those in airports...
It is in hospitals that you see a homophobe being saved by a gay doctor.
A privileged doctor saving the life of a beggar...
In intensive care, you see a Jew taking care of a racist...
A police officer and a prisoner in the same room receiving the same care...
A wealthy patient waiting for a liver transplant, ready to receive the organ from a poor donor...
It is in these moments, when the hospital touches the wounds of people, that different worlds intersect according to a divine design. And in this communion of destinies, we realize that alone, we are nothing.
The absolute truth of people, most of the time, only reveals itself in moments of pain or in the real threat of an irreversible loss.
A hospital is a place where human beings remove their masks and show themselves as they truly are, in their purest essence.
This life will pass quickly, so do not waste it fighting with people.
Do not criticize your body too much.
Do not complain excessively.
Do not lose sleep over bills.
Make sure to hug your loved ones.
Do not worry too much about keeping the house spotless.
Material goods must be earned by each person—do not dedicate yourself to accumulating an inheritance.
You are waiting for too much: Christmas, Friday, next year, when you have money, when love arrives, when everything is perfect...
Listen, perfection does not exist.
A human being cannot attain it because we are simply not made to be fulfilled here.
Here, we are given an opportunity to learn.
So, make the most of this trial of life—and do it now.
Respect yourself, respect others. Walk your own path, and let go of the path others have chosen for you.
Respect: do not comment, do not judge, do not interfere.
Love more, forgive more, embrace more, live more intensely!
And leave the rest in the hands of the Creator.”
Thursday, April 24, 2025
Fait-divers on perspective
"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." - Max Planck
Fait-divers on sincerity and authenticity
The huge difference between sincerity and authenticity. Sincerity, while it's lovely, is necessary but insufficient, because you can be sincere with just one zone of your heart awakened.
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