"To be loved like that makes all the difference. It does not lessen the terror of the fall, but it gives a new perspective on what that terror means. I had jumped off the edge, and then, at the very last moment, something reached out and caught me in midair. That something is what I define as love. It is the one thing that can stop a man from falling, the one thing powerful enough to negate the laws of gravity." Paul Auster (Moon Palace)

Sunday, September 25, 2022

Milan Kundera, "The Book of Laughter and Forgetting" (laughable laughter)

Milan Kundera, "The Unbearable Lightness Of Being" (a septic tank)

Milan Kundera, "The Unbearable Lightness of Being" (the parade)

Milan Kundera, "The Book of Laughter and Forgetting" (it takes so little, so infinitely little)

John Steinbeck, "Tortilla Flat" (the story was gradually taking shape)

Milan Kundera, "The Book of Laughter and Forgetting" (the laughter)

John Steinbeck, "Tortilla Flat", (still it does seem to mean something)

Christian Meditation

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"Sit down. Sit still and upright. Close your eyes lightly. Sit relaxed but alert. Silently, interiorly begin to say a single word. We recommend the prayer phrase, Maranatha. Listen to it as you say it, gently but continuously. Do not think or imagine anything spiritual or otherwise. If thoughts and images come, these are distractions at the time of meditation, so keep returning to simply saying the word. Meditate twenty to thirty minutes each morning and evening."
 
Kim Nataraja
 

John Steinbeck, "Cannery Row" (he likes boats)

John Steinbeck, "East of Eden" (was it good or was it evil?)

Frank Pasquale (narratives)

H. A. Kramers (a well-defined meaning)

Marguerite Yourcenar, "L’oeuvre au Noir"

Outros olhares: Espanha, Maiorca, Catedral de Palma

Milan Kundera, "The Unbearable Lightness of Being" (the kitsch of the Grand March)

Nuvens sobre a serra num dia de Agosto de 2021

Milan Kundera, "The Book of Laughter and Forgetting" (in equilibrium)

Friday, September 23, 2022

Outros olhares: Bélgica, Bruxelas numa manhã de Setembro de 2017

Milan Kundera, "The Book of Laughter and Forgetting" (the angel and the devil)

Outros olhares: França, Nice, Abril de 2017

Milan Kundera, "The Unbearable Lightness of Being" (Communist kitsch)

Sintra, Cstelo dos Mouros visto da Vila num fim de dia de agosto de 2020

Educação

 


 

"Parents who were available but not demanding, reassuring but not intrusive, responsive but not reactive, present even if not perfect, Winnicott observed, provided a “holding environment” that made children comfortable and curious. Holding made space for them to learn how to make sense of, and manage, their inner and social worlds—and to develop a robust sense of self. That is, a self with a healthy regard for its abilities and limitations, a self that can learn, play, work, face hardships, and sustain hope through it all.


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Children who are held well, Winnicott discovered, became more sociable and independent as grown-ups. They neither became paralyzed when faced with challenges, nor sought rescue from parental figures. They did seek help when needed and made good use of it. Winnicott called such selves true, meaning that they were free to make their way in the world, and he saw such strength and freedom as the result, one might say, of a competent kind of love. He also observed that they could offer it in turn. They had learned to hold themselves and others too."

Algures na Serra de Sintra num dia de Dezembro de 2019